When you read these you will think they are selfish. But as I have found out getting older, these are true. When I was 25 and my son was little, I could ignore them. I wish my wife would take them to heart as well.
This is a subject very near and dear to me. My autistic son is 25 now, and has not been able to get into any program since completing hgh school 4 years ago. This is a real problem for many families.